[['ISTP'
"'Steam Community :: Vyliam I spend most of my time in CS:GO. Do a little comp but mostly GunGame on the Sl4ySl3d server, come join in. 470058|||Yep, and they were like where were you?. I told you I didn't want to go and so I didn't. But yea, the push people that get mad when they didn't get their way. I hate my job, but that's a...|||Work functions, the dreaded agony of having to attend. The thing I had most is when they prescribe it as a team building event. Sorry you can't build team spirit when no one gives a shit. Reminds...|||Well yes. That does not mean that I make it known to those around me what I find as a good looking person. Depending on friends and how I feel around them, I might point them out. There is no...|||To the first part. ISTP's are good at looking at complex systems and figuring them out, and at times over simplifying them. With that being said that complex system could be a car, bike, business,...|||11 by 3|||Two more clicks is inefficient, where a single click is only needed now. That requires twice the effort to get to and well out of sight is out of mind, and forgotten.|||It depends, free dancing, not so much. Just don't know what to do. I do perform in a traditional Bavarian German/Austrian dance group. I do enjoy it a lot, and it is fun when the crowd is into it...|||Well it seems like that is part of the problem. You both want kinds but you put the extra stipulation on it that there has to be a house with more room for them. You probably decided this and said...|||Well a war is more or less a disagreement between two people of power or a group who cant settle the problem by talking. They decide to show the force or their power by use of their military. That...|||I think it fits the SP temperament well. When I learned to weld I had to learn what was a good weld and a poor weld. I became quite good at welding and my instructor asked me to make a weld that...|||8+ hours spent on the internet, from browsing, email, gaming. 1. Mostly FireFox or Chrome, similar plugins on both but listed for FireFox 2. Adblock, All-In-One Gestures, VidewDownloadHelper,...|||So the only bit of advice is to answer the questions truthfully. You need to forget about who you want to be or how you feel you should be. Answer the questions honestly and you should come out...|||I think it comes from a survival instinct in that viewing from the outside allows for the best information gathering and allows for a firm plan of action to take. Where being the center of attention...|||Well its a bit hard to pick one, where is the All of the Above option? As for saying it, I simply don't. It is so over used and abused by many people. My typical answer is thanks or that's...|||It boils down to the survival instincts. You try something and it doesn't work, you improve on that something and fail again, you make another correction and you succeed. You now have a better...|||Where is the I don't know. option? Haven't had any long term relationships unless you count a month as long term but then again no idea on the type. So good try.|||Never used FaceBook, MySpace, Twitter, or those likes. If you want to know me, find me in real life.|||Set yourself a limit. So you want to cut down on fast food and junk food. It is near impossible to cut it out entirely as you can only go so long before you have to have it. I cut soda out a...|||And The Mechanic is both of those. So why change it?|||Only the non-traditional cake. Angle Food Cake with strawberries and whip cream is the only one I go for. The others are too sweet and sugary. 27/07|||1. Motivation is different for every person and what gets them there is also different. It is for you the manager to find out and learn. As a general privately acknowledge the work the ISTP has...|||Well to break it down, 6 per 30 seconds, 5 shallow breaths and 1 deep breath. For you 1 minute total of 12.|||Mine is a nickname I was called when younger. I was always finding/spotting things most people over looked and/or lost, and thus being called EagleEye.|||Back in high school, I had a girl come up to me in science class and put her foot next to mine. She said looking down at our feet You know what they say about people with big feet? I had no idea...|||So.... It's come to this!|||I head someone say something along these lines the other day, good advice. You will never know if _______ likes you or is interest in you unless you ask. Everyone is afraid of rejection and...|||I am no good with free dancing, can never seem to make it work. I do however preform in and Austrian & Bavarian Dance group. It is a lot of fun and getting to go to all the Oktoberfests,...|||To be yourself: Means to just do what you would normally do. It is not choosing to act in a way that you normally would. It's like if something makes you sad and you act like it doesn't. It simply...|||It's not a miss understanding. We live in the moment. You are trying to freeze time to plan out how the initial meeting will go and what you want to convey. Every person is different in what...|||Why is it that everyone that comes here to ask for advise is always asking how they should change themselves to be noticed by an ISTP? The simple answer to you question is this Be yourself. We...|||I drive a 2007 Subaru Impreza WRX STI and its a load of fun. Gas mileage is so so, but so much fun to drive in the mountains. Its my only car so it does what I need it to.|||Ever thought about welding?|||My boss would stop by and ask how is it going? that is too ambiguous of a question and gets a very short answer of fine. Its that I don't know what he is looking for. Is it the current task,...|||It could be a test of trust. I will do that sometimes with information that doesn't really matter if people know it or not. I do it to see if you can keep information to yourself. Its a process of...|||So it's come to this....|||Yes I take stuff apart before throwing it out. Sometimes it is a simple fix to correct the issue. There is no harm in something that doesn't work anymore to take it apart to take a look. What is...|||The simple answer is yes. That is why you see most ISTP's in extreme sports or pushing themselves to the limits of death. It is when we feel most alive and connected to the world. I would jump out...|||Best way to put it is you don't know if you like the ice cream unless you have tried it. You don't know if you like riding a bicycle unless you have tried it. For an ISTP you have to physically do...|||Not sure on a class. But I learned to drive manual with about 3 hours of continuous behind the wheel driving. That was having someone in the passenger seat that knew how to drive manual and pure...|||I made the switch from auto to manual about 11 years ago. The switch was mainly in part of having an auto transmission go haywire and randomly determine which gear it was going to change in and out...|||It greatly depends on what it is that you view is bad. Pointing out something is bad/wrong/dangerous without providing any sort of logical explanation as to why said task should be changed, means...|||I would suggest setting deadlines for things to be completed. Like have X of product done by Y date. Put the people that keep asking you for the product in touch with him directly. I can guess...|||The problem is within the education system. They only teach to two type of learning which is auditory and visual. They don't teach hands on which is the way most of us ISTP's will learn things. It...|||I have worked in the IT field since 2002 and prior to that I was always fixing everyone's computer. Even having left the IT field it keeps coming back to bite at me. Worked at a computer store...|||I really wish people took what I say and apply it as what I mean. Person: What do you want to do? Me: I don't care. Whatever you want. Person: Quit being passive aggressive. Me:...|||Ask him if both his wife and him would like to go, that you have comp tickets, and you thought they would enjoy the music? Let him know that they don't have to take the tickets if they don't want to...|||Its a lot of fun and a lot of thinking for the CNC aspect. I operate a Mandrel Tube Bender but I would like to get more into the other CNC machines but my shop doesn't have any others. Its about...|||CNC Operator, Welder, and IT guy all for the same company.|||I have not defined the words I love you. Its a work in progress. Its a term that is used way too much in my opinion and really does not have a meaning any more. People say to people they hate just...'"]
['ESTP'
"'her songs sound like the kind of things my INFJ might want to say when under some pressure, like if she were to vent about relationships trying to explain it to me through her journal but never to me...|||Okay simple question. What is romantic to a pretty independent 25 year old infj female who works alot and goes to college? She is super private and introverted. She is always super busy and...|||I like mature infj idealism, it's not loud and obnoxious. Its personal and all theirs. You actually have to ask to hear about it unless they see you being a jerk.|||[QUOTE=sand_at_your_feet;1773737]A lot of valid points. I've always been one to try to understand people, but I'm not always sure that he has. I'm not sure what his type is, and couldn't even begin...|||OMG... I'm not INFJ ... ESTP here, but had to chime it to an old post here. I love the above exchange. Dear god its true lol, my INFJ has had some creeps looking to have her and I like to toe the...|||Okay upon reading all of that other long ass post about you and him + this one, I have a couple of things to add though I'm not sure how much of this you will want to hear. While ESTP/INFJ...|||Lol it made me seem like a dark brooding deep poet... Chicks thought I wad complex and cute but sexy. Of all the chicks that tried to fix my hurt my infj and her tough live were the only ones to...|||I say try it. My relationship with my Infj is only about 2 years long too. Not sure what adive I can give aside from don't nag him. My infj doesn't nag me, only person who understands how mugch that...|||In my shadow I let things get too personal. I get distant and sensitive and angry. I burn bridges and get lost in thoughts about the future and how it will suck. I over indulge in food and get stuck...|||Infjs make amazing gfs in my experience, I've come across some misconceptions about infjs. : 1. They don't actually cry at the drop of a hat. They are sensitive not crazy... Well not that kind of...|||I used to tune into her show. But I'm a lesbian so I never called in. Everyone in this world has an opinion. It our job to take the good stuff out of all the shit. I was a child raised in an abusive...|||I'm an ESTP I suppose, and I'm going with an INFJ now for a bit. She thinks I'm sensitive ... And cute. :rolleyes: Idk where she gets this stuff, apparently she digs my tomboy-ish ways and...|||My app won't seem to let me thank a post, no computer... So thanks, good post. :cool:|||Dear tiff, We love each other okay, so let's stop pretending that's not the case. I'm not running or going anywhere with out you, so quit being distant and cranky. I know this distance is to protect...|||Being direct is good, tell him you don't see him that way. Don't give excuses, my infj gf didn't think it would work because of a handful of lame excuses that made her just seem scared. I made it...|||That sounds about right, I can make things happen, take the lead if needed... But I don't like to step on them that don't have it coming and I'd rather not be in a position of power. them that lead...|||Oh how I love the chase :) well put|||Well, actually my gf is an infj and we make a pretty fucking awesome team. Sure I've picked up a few good tips from observing her, but I've never wanted to be her type so much as I've liked to be...|||I get ESFP from her, she seems like my older sis. My sis is tough and rebellious and a 4.|||Took a test but I think it was wrong. I was also really really unhealthy when I took it. : shrug : never gotten around to retaking it or changing it.|||BWAHAHAHAHA thats the funniest post ever. Ok now my two cents on this: ESTPs do what they think they need to do to get the results they think are best. Every situation will call for different...|||i think most of us just want a mate that matches us.. other wise we do get bored... its not that we stop caring, its just that with out alittle excitement here and there we get so TIRED of the...|||i don't think i ever grew out of the phase as a teen where you sleep a whole lot when you can. if i have stuff going on i'll stay up for upto 2 and a half days at most if i have to. if i dont have...|||i dont want to ever have meaningless sex, and when i get bored in a relationship i do my best to fix that before breaking up.. I NEVER cheat. I see where i could cheat, but the point is my...|||Different, I talk about stuff in real life but not in the same way. IRL it depends on who I'm hanging with, but someone once told me that when they met me they thought I was gonna be mean and kinda...|||I'm flip flopping here... Between a very public death where I could get a message across, or by myself on a race track in a fast car while heavily intoxicated and having the time of my life just...|||I love introverts, I like being the only Extrovert in a group of introverts. Maybe I like the attention, most introverts are excellent listeners and are pretty dang chill. What I like about...|||You can strike up a conversation with just about anyone, anytime.|||I watched D.E.B.S. last week I think or maybe the week before. Basically a romantic chick flick that is a spoof of spy/secret agent type films. Its alot of fluff and silly jokes but fun all the...|||then yeah no real point in selling atm, but if it ever get pretty long and you want to consider selling it its actually a pretty fun experience lol. hell i filmed it and all my friends signed my head...|||i am afraid of something as stupid as heights, it stops me from going on the the tower of terror or other rides where you fall... i've been on those rides to try it out, i didnt enjoy it. i much...|||Well sometimes I do think about my emotions, sometimes I dont think about them and I just... feel them. but only when I'm with my INFJ and she kinda brings me to that point. Mostly though she helps...|||nope, i can only really speak for myself though. i'm tomboy-ish and i dont care to attract that sort of attention with out me actually seeking that kind of attention. my infj gf shows some light...|||So true, I may not be angry at you forever or hold a grudge, It may even seem like I'm exactly the same as I was before. However you can bet I'll keep it in mind so the next time you are gonna do the...|||if all else fails, read the directions ....thats a very true quote for me, it is for many estps. i only came here at first because i was interested in an infj... i had done everything i could think...|||Well to me its like when I play video games like mass effect or fall out... or anything that has a gradually progressing story. I get to develop this character and On the fly make up its lines and...|||While I game Anything from video games to Table Top RPGs such as D&D, I also enjoy playing pool at this coffee house down town. They have good drinks and there are always alot of girls around. We...|||I'm curious If anyone else on here likes D&D as in Dungeons and Dragons Or any other Table top RPGs such as Modern or starwars. If so share some of your best gaming experiences. One of my best...|||Not sure people tend to sell over a foot so its hard to tell... maybe $100? it also depends on the health of your hair and the color. so like I have brown hair but when I sold it I talked about the...|||Well you can't really tell in the picture but my hair was about 2 feel long and really really thick, also I don't really color it or do anything like that to it... just wash and brush or comb it. I...|||http://i158.photobucket.com/albums/t120/J_DelMar1987/Mobile%20Uploads/me-1.jpg Thats me with my hair long... about 6 months before I cut it all off. ...|||When you get a taste of racing a really fast car and drifting on a track while listing to some good music... and now you're hooked.|||I agree I think being with my INFJ has kinda been like miracle grow for my soul. I don't know that many people are ready for this kind of experience in their lives, but when you are its a pretty...|||what if you're not sure whats causing this, or you cant realy take away what is causing this mess.?|||Hey welcome, this place is pretty cool and rich with info on all types. Kick your shoes off and make yourself at home ;)|||:) Gee Moby sometimes I think some folk just like to stuff the meaning of love into a little box and say inside this box is how you love, if you do not love this way, then you cannot love. I get a...|||while I agree being nude is fun, I like my comfy jeans and a fun T. I save the nude for when I am alone or with someone umm.. special *cough* lol. Anyway, I know I've never worn anything that...|||Well I have dyslexia and I'm an ESTP, but that doesn't really prove anything. Still I think it is interesting how learning disabilities work. For example when I took an I.Q. test that was timed I...|||HEY! sorry to be off subject I just noticed your signature. CN ay? lol I have to ask is this D&D related? Please say yes! And yeah my dad is always trying to get me to be lady like, but he isnt...|||So true I would hide in stores too :proud: they all thought I was lost, I kind of was but not really. I could always find my way around places by talking to people and what not. I loved exploring.'"]
['ENTJ'
"'I thought you were a fucking 3w4 SX. Hostility rings of freaking image types. That fucking narcissistic streak. Instead you're one of my kind.|||This. Although, I have my days. brb going on another website to circle-jerk to satisfy my ego.|||That's true. INFJ's values are more malleable in a way. It is why the the metaphor of a mirror holds true to INFJs when it comes to understanding human interactions through the lens of Perspectives...|||I would just like to necro this thread to thank the OP for shedding light on Ni dominants through JCF. After delving obsessively into typology for around a year I have recently figured out what my...|||That is funny. Jung notes that Fi doms, when they morph themselves into extremities such as in your case, they reject any ounce of feeling they have left and that is how the stereotype of the INFP...|||It was a process of elimination. The J/P axis has always been a factor which is blindly misleading to the general populace. Finding my identity through my true type has never been my main...|||Dad: ISFX 6w7 Mom: ISFJ 2w1 Lil bro : ISFP 9w1 Me: INTJ 5w4|||It seems to me from pure neutral expressions alone those who value Fi tend to look unapproachable by default, thus the RBFS criteria holds applicable to their general population. The raw Fi in NTJs...|||Dear [ISFJ] [Mom] please stop trying to conform me into your expectations of what a good son is like and please meddle off my business regarding my future. Sincerely, your son who first seeks to...|||I think it comes with Introversion and that the characteristics and traits of Highly Sensitive Persons do fit the criteria of being an Introvert. As long as it does not interfere with reality on...|||^ Lol dat RBFS phenomenon. Well, from my experience, I fit the criteria of the Resting bitchface syndrome society. It has repelled people off coupled with my seemingly arrogant vibe that I tend...|||Dominant Fe and auxiliary Fe users. I can spot their bullshit which clashes with my Ti sometimes though. Haven't met Ne and aux Ne users irl just yet. iirc|||Does the premise of this thread explain the projection of the Demonic personality complex archetype in the Bebee model? IxTP's Might become very envious and resentful at people seen as morally...|||It depends on each individual INTPs. We are generally minimalists to the core, though. As most Ns, especially ones with Si.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=unRldLdllZ8 I find silly, absurd things like this hlarious. This guy was thought to be a troll. But he's doing it for a different reason.|||There has been a recent news stating that a space shuttle, has just landed on an unbeknownst land to man. the land itself could be described as a form of a highly polished temple, located at the...|||Us INTPs tend to excessively doubt our own reasonings and our selves that it gets to the point of depression. Not to mention inferior Fe is always ready to latch onto us when things get too much. ...|||^ Dis. Compare and contrast skills in video games which requires you to delve into the mechanics to get a slight advantage in terms of what or who you're dealing with, in real time. I have done...|||When you are able to sense the ambiance of a given atmosphere depending on its context. I would say, I can only evaluate the ambiance in its most simplistic feeling tones in contrast to say, an...|||when you're too busy in your head to notice a double post.|||Hahaha. It was mainly a response to my own personal experience of being afflicted with Social anxiety for almost half of my life and me responding to you in a tongue-in-cheek manner. As INTPs, we...|||I relate to this a lot. I suggest you read the Beebee model if you haven't. It states how a Dominant Thinker would mistake him/herself as an emotional feeler. There are a lot of overlapping...|||Should I take this at face value or instert an involuntary emotional response?|||> My 5w4 > to Ti E-type to MBTI correlation. I am not one to believe that any MBTI type can be attributed to any E-type. It just does not make sense. There are exceptions of course. >I have...|||If anything, from what I have concluded after I have discovered myself to be an INTJ --- the real INTJs under the grip of tertiary Fi -- Its' users would be too focused on the purity of one's...|||You sound like a catch. Keep at it! :wink: Now I'm going in hibernation mode. Toodles~ :laughing:|||She doesn't have to look like a model. As long as she's attractive to me, able to match me physically (in bed), intellectually and emotionally. I look for intensity and depth in a real relationship....|||It's late here. But I'd just like to chip in. Well, I dropped out of high school at the age of 16. Afterwards, I'd lived in isolation for pretty much a good number of years. Sure, I was a loser to...|||Can I change my previous request to Translucent?|||care to type me?|||Well, I am in no way experienced when it comes to the man hair up there. I was even unaware of the term, I had to google it. It came out with this: ...|||You look clean cut/shaven. You have good skin complexion as well. That's good bro.|||Excuse me?|||Congrats!|||What the other INFJs have shown in this thread, is their Fe/Ti pair. If what you merely see, is perceived to be a personal attack out of our higher-than-thou holy attitude, then you have definitely...|||The way I see it, no one can fix anyone, period. By you choosing not to interact with the person in question, a path will be enlightened, and the universe itself; brings about a multitude of events,...|||Hmm... This is why tests are bs. People are prone to perception bias especially when they have dabbled on the cognitive functions. Other biases such as the predominantly inherent S/N ridicule could...|||Please post your whole results for the cognitive function test. Bolded: That would indicate the use of your dominant Se. Italicised: I suggest you don't delve into generalisations....|||http://s.quickmeme.com/img/da/dad5e5ac9b76e8125c698839f3ed6db1f848df0936a5cb4711cf6939ed039ad8.jpg http://i.imgur.com/gnDXVrw.jpg|||Has it ever occurred to you that, you, yourself are possibly unhealthy? It's quite clear that you wouldn't be making these threads and will try to move on, if you were emotionally stable and healthy...|||I had to: Let me google that for you I was going to sum up an argument to spot the logical fallacy, then I found this: http://www.ssc.wisc.edu/~mferree/images/pee-sitting.jpg Mindblown.|||Introvert problems: http://media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/99/9f/e5/999fe55098f60a4375887859fbdcefc3.jpg http://static.someecards.com/someecards/usercards/MjAxMy02YjM4YjhhNmFiN2Y3Zjk2.png ...|||139833 Dat you? All joking aside:|||Could I change mine to Tentative Transitoire? Thank you.|||I agree with this. Instead of delving deeper into your inner vortex and succumbing to addictions to mask the pain. Delve into your pain. Start loving yourself by doing this. Don't think otherwise. ...|||this. Haha! Oh wow. Makes me wonder the relevance between your perfectionistic tendency in becoming pedantic about grammar and punctuations and how such tendency would manifest in a E-type 1. What...|||Are personal attacks justified? If so, I'm sure you've provided yourself with enough data and variables through consistent and rigorous logical experimentation, consisting of both that carrot that...|||ideal you |||||| real you |||||| Introversion |||||||||||||| 53% |||||||||||||| 53% Extroversion |||||||||||||| 53% |||||||||||||| 56% Intuitive |||||||||||||||||| 73% ||||||||||||||...|||My mistake. Let me edit my previous post. I'm assuming you are still pertaining to your original idea and making associations on how an Enneatype 1 would manifest itself in real time interactions,...|||I'm assuming he is still pertaining to his original idea and making associations on how an Enneatype 1 would manifest itself in real time interactions, externally, based on general observations of...'"]
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['INTP'
"'Oh ENTJs, how can you be scary and exciting at the same time? :wink: It's just like when my friend suggest, Let's exchange scary stories! My first reaction will be, No no no no no, I won't be able...|||Weirdest compliment I've ever recieved must be,I wish I could be as selfish as you. said by my INFJ friend. If I didn't know her better, I would have thought she's mocking me in a roundabout way....|||I only found out my love for travelling last year. It's really exciting to go to different places with different cultures, see different scenery, meet new people... I learned quite a bit from my...|||I'm touch aversed in real life, but if a virtual hug is enough for you, then... Here, have a hug *hugs*|||So I left home, I packed up and I moved far away from my past one day, and I laughed, I laughed, I laughed, I laughed. I sound fine on the outside. Fine On The Outside by Priscilla Ahn|||Ignorance and prejudice. I don't care how attractive and intellegent someone is, when they start to crack some rape jokes or make tranphobic/xenophobic comment, I'll no longer be interested in them.|||1. Sincerity. It bothers me when people don't mean what they say. 2. Authenticity. Trying to live my life as someone else would be counterproductive and suffocating. 3. Autonomy. I want to be...|||Wow, everyone's photos are just so... mesmerizing At Trikora Beach, Bintan Island 531258|||I love Ghost Hunt, too! It's a very interesting supernatural/mystery anime with lovable characters. I only watched few episodes of Tsubasa Reservoir Chronicle, but I love the manga version. I never...|||Thanks for replying :happy: Whoa... you have two ESFJs in your family! Looks like you cherish each other... I'm happy to hear that :kitteh: Hmm... yeah, I guess my mom's habit has something to...|||Thanks for replying :happy: Hmm... telling my mom can be a difficult task to do. I mean, it takes 20+ years for her to believe me when i say, I hate wearing jewelry. Please stop asking me to wear...|||Hello :happy: I've been thinking about this for quite a while, and still can't find an answer, so I hope you guys can help me. I'm a female INTP raised by an ESFJ mother, and we get along well...|||Hmm... let me see... I had hard time in high school (not as bad as middle school, but still...) I didn't have many friends, and always felt like an alien in my classroom. I knew my classmates...|||This world is... not a world wrapped in light. But that's not all. It's not only darkness. That's not all it is. Soma Yuki - Fruits Basket|||A question for all manga reader: What is (are) your fave demographic group(s)? Shounen, shoujo, seinen, or josei? Rocksteady Finally, a male reader who reads shoujo manga ^_^ What do you think...|||Kaggra, - Utakata. I'm not even a fan of Kaggra, but I really love this song ^_^|||Sumisoul I like Bakuman, Fruits Basket, and Fushigi Yuugi, too :kitteh: (I haven't read manga version of Death Note, so I can't give any opinion...) And yeah, filler episodes are annoying. Mutatio...|||radeness I haven't read 7 Days, but it looks promising. I'll add it to my reading list. I'll read After School Nighmare, too. It looks like our taste in manga is kinda similar (I'm not a big fan of...|||Hi, CowGoesQuack :happy: Do you like Naruto manga more than its anime version? radeness Psychological yaoi FTW :wink: Yeah, I love bittersweet ending because somehow it feels more realistic. Have...|||Ethereal Hm... so you like action/adventure manga, mostly from shonen/seinen demography?:happy: How about Monster, Rainbow, and Jisatsutou (The Suicide Island)? Have you read them? radeness My...|||Do you like reading manga? Why/ why not? What's your fave manga? Let's talk about manga here :happy:|||Because you are too warm :tongue:|||Today I read a story that made me remember that this world is not only filled with bad things, but also good things. Hope is not that scary.|||Mutual understanding Sincerity Open minded|||I'm currently re-reading Sakuragari manga. This dialogue always makes me think about the meaning of life: Souma: These cuts were made by me... I've always found it strange. I thought it'll...|||How could she be that blind? Even after all these years... I give up. I've had enough. I'll no longer hope her to understand me. I'll no longer hope her to see the real me. I should have known...|||1. What is your sexual orientation? I'm still unsure about it 2. Do you regularly do drugs? (For the purposes of this survey, I'll include alcohol.) Never 3. How many relationships have you had?...|||My best friend is a female INTJ. We went to the same middle school and high school, but we only became close (and later, best) friends at college. I love her stubborness and she loves my...|||I like short poems that has deep meaning. My fave poet is Sapardi Djoko Damono, and this is my fave poem: Time is Transient Time is transient. We are eternal: plucking seconds, one by one,...|||Environmentalist Pacifist Academist|||I like reading manga (scanlation), especially psychological manga. My current obsession is Zankoku na Kami ga Shihai Suru. Given enough inspiration and motivation, I like writing fanfic as well. ...|||My ESFJ mom used to say, Have more friends! Don't be so picky! but now she's less demanding :happy:|||Monster Ghost Hunt Hetalia|||My mom is an ESFJ. She loves discussions and debates, so we get along well.|||Libera - Going Home|||1. Yang Fana Adalah Waktu by Sapardi Djoko Damono Yang fana adalah waktu. Kita abadi: memungut detik demi detik, merangkainya seperti bunga sampai pada suatu hari kita lupa untuk apa. ...|||I like L'arc~en~Ciel and Alice Nine.|||Kingdom of Heaven. I like how it portrayed religious conflict.|||My friends are all females, I don't get along well with males. I get along well with my ESFJ mother.|||1. Omnivore 2. INTP|||I'm an INTP, and my best friend is an INTJ. She's also my partner-in-crime :)|||To an INFJ friend of mine... Please stop letting yourself getting taken advantage of. It hurts me to see you get hurt. Please stop avoiding conflict all the times. Sometimes you need to...|||I like Fujioka Haruhi from Ouran Koukou Host Club, Aramaki Takahiro and Iwashimizu Natsu from 7Seeds, Shion and Mokuren from Please Save My Earth.|||Alice Nine - Ruri no Ame|||I'am an INTP, and I'm a female. Do I exist? ^_^|||I only have few friends, and they are all females (NT and NF).|||Sometimes I like (interacting with) my cat better than (interacting with) my parents and siblings|||Angela Aki - Sakura iro nice song, nice pv :)'"]
['ENFJ'
"'Hi, ENTP, and welcome to the forum.:wink:|||From what you're describing, she could be an ESTJ because SJs don't like change much and are routine-based.:wink:|||It sounds like from what you desribe, you're an ENTJ.:wink:|||You're definitely an INTP.:wink:|||You are definitely an ESTP. I can tell by reading the description.:happy:|||It's called the Daytrona patch.:laughing:|||Welcome to the forum and enjoy your stay here.:blushed:|||Welcome to the forum and enjoy your stay here.:blushed::blushed::blushed:|||Try reading both types to see which fits.:cool:|||Read both types. Then consider which of those types describe you better. You'll know by the way each feels.:cool:|||Welcome to the forum.:wink:|||Regardless of disorder, your personality type is yours. Don't you understand that the disorder you have doesn't determine your type. You determine who you are and not the condition. Don't you know...|||I would say that you are an ISFJ.:proud:|||I like to be around people. It helps me to observe who they are. :proud:|||He's an INTJ.:blushed:|||She's an ENTJ.:blushed:|||Sounds a lot like an ISFJ.:blushed:|||I think you're an INFJ and I'll tell you why. First of all, INFJ's can be analytical because they're observant. And secondly, because they look carefully at the situation. And finally, because they...|||From what you've said, I would say that you're an an INFJ.:wink:|||I'm an ENFJ with ADHD.:blushed:|||INFP's are nice people.:proud:|||I took the test and found out that I'm the dismissing type.|||INTJ's are fine, but I prefer ISTJ's.:blushed:|||I would be self-sacrificing.|||Hi, Chrissy and welcome to the forum.:proud:||| Let's Be True! Listen to your heart, so honest and true. Value your heart way up in the blue. Let's get along way up so high. And be off|||To stay true to myself.:blushed:|||Take time to talk and listen to each other.:proud:|||I'm religious and I'm an ENFJ.:blushed:|||Hi, I'm an ENFJ. Welcome to the forum.:proud:|||Try and read both descriptions to see which one fits.:cool:|||Very interesting topic.:happy:|||You're Definitely an ENTP. :laughing:|||Hi and welcome to the forum.:proud:|||Hi and welcome to the forum.:happy:|||Hi and welcome to the forum.:happy:|||Hi and welcome to the forum.:happy:|||Hi and welcome to the forum.:cool::cool:|||My list of stereotypes include: strong, confident, bold, courageous, self-confident, self-assured, and assertive.:proud:|||I'm an ENFJ and I like to go out with ISTJ's. They are loyal and protective. I appreciate their honesty.:proud:|||Maybe you want to change because you want to use your shadow fuctions.:happy:|||I go to bed at 10 pm and get at 3 am. I'm neither an early bird nor a night owl.:cool::cool::cool:|||My test result is Mace Windu.:happy:|||I voted non-political though when I took the test, I turned out liberal.:happy:|||My life is filled with family and good times.:happy::happy::happy:|||I like SJ and SP because SJ's are guardians and SP's are artisans.:wink:|||He sounds like an INTJ.:happy:|||My mom is an INFJ and my dad is an ESTP.:proud:|||I like ISTJ's. Welcome to the forum. I hope you enjoy your stay here.:blushed::blushed::blushed:|||Nice to meet you.:blushed::proud::wink:'"]
['ENTP'
"Interesting, you've gone from Se dominant to Ne dominant, and usually ENXp in socionics tends to go hand in hand with the MBTI descriptions. ENxps are fairly similar, but it's fairly simple right, do...|||The way you connected, would have just been because of your introversion. It's actually very much easier to work out your socionics type btw, have a look at the quadras: Alpha Quadra -...|||That's why they make the cognitive function ones near impossible to follow :proud:|||Ouch, not sure you should be so quick to judge, seeing as ENTPs have a tendency to disappear sometimes. You might be right though of course, can't speak for all ENTPs, others just want things.|||Ahhhh, ENFJs... a breath of fresh air. I really enjoy the company of the one I know, though there is a problem with the asshole/childish games and stuff, our conversations are awesome. I could see it...|||Hmmm, In my experience, I've found that it doesn't work most of the time (for me it has, but for others, usually not). Tests will not tell you anything you don't know already, they're just there to...|||This makes me think that you might be a Feeler. I'd say you're probably an extrovert too, considering the way you ask questions, the way you blatantly spurt everything out yet haven't really said...|||He'll work that out eventually, just introduce him to people that you think he might enjoy the company of. Typically INTJs -and well, just about every other person, regardless of type- works these...|||Yeah, that's it, you described it perfectly, you're definitely and ENTP, don't worry about that ENTJ INTP nonsense :laughing:. It's kind of hard to describe, like gossipy or something I guess.|||Okay, I worked this one out a little while ago, I was trying to use the floor function because I didn't realize that the lines(eg. |x|) mean absolute value. After that, I've worked it out, and you're...|||okay, are you kind of hyper, always suggesting crazy ideas, playing with 'toys' and causing mischief to satisfy some kind of chaotic urge (which I figure it to kill boredom) when out with people? Or...|||Ahhhh! so you've thought this out I see, so you release the teeth eating coyotes, and use some kind of alarm system in your house based on the weight of zombies on the floorboards|||*insert auto welcome here* Damn, just as my zombie thread thought it was catching you, it turns out you've bumped up the game :tongue: I'm not quite EF, but I'm almost there, but surely you don't...|||Welcome breeze, You'll be treated like all the other newbies, first comes the hazing, then the protection money phase, and then you become a minion, after that... ahh... there's not much after that...|||Yup we're all crazy here, well at least I am... it's pretty fun welcoming people, you can expect at least a page of welcomes... even if they don't say anything much. Best thing about welcomes, is...|||Ahhh! How is that related to the floor function though? Are absolute values the same as the floor function? ... hmm, they're not related at all are they... Yarrr, I was going to post that...|||I thought that was simple, high school mathematics even (alright, advanced kind of high school maths). I forgot to explain what a floor function is though for those who may not know (explaining...|||Okay, I figure maths differs quite fundamentally from science, so I'm making a separate thread. It'd be nice to know if there is anyone here even interested in mathematics. I usually just need...|||Wouldn't that get a little messy? At least people wont hassle you while you do your job, they'll all assume that you're dead when they see 'you' explode on the news. Then you're safe (edit, forgot to...|||Oh well, It's still informing and I don't think his assignment matters. It's the science that counts.|||I hope maths fits in here, if not, I'll have to create a mathematics thread. I've been practicing maths in my free time, I'm taking up 2nd year physics and math next year, I want to improve upon my...|||Yeah, it's a carbocation, normally carbon has the same amount of electrons as it has protons. 2 in the s subshell, 4 in the p subshell. Take one electron away, and the number of protons dominates,...|||Hmm, I donno what it says, but oh well, It's a deal. I do that too, supposedly it might be a sign that you're more of a party person, most people I know who do this are kind of like that. ...|||Ooooo, you're good you!! :crazy:|||House is entertaining at least, but I guess that's not really all that high on your list. I'll just have to pretend to be an ISTP and go all navy seals and stuff... though it'll probably become...|||2. Watch Out Your Jokes There are many people who gets very sensitive about jokes. You might think it's funny to call that lousy guy with some silly nickname, and everyone seems to think it's funny,...|||That's more like it, the type me threads need my advanced skillz anyway. Ahhh, I just remembered, after you've figured yourself out, you've gotta branch out and figure out other people. I see why...|||Hello world... that doesn't appear significant to me, could you shed some light on the topic? I can kind of see it coming from an IN at the very least.|||It totally depends fully on who you work for, If it's the great stone god, you might be in a bit of luck. 9w8 hey, that's a type not often found on the internet (or so they say), 9w1s are way more...|||I donno if it works like that, remember the 7 wing? if those conditions aren't satisfied, I tend to scavenge about for security elsewhere. Interesting use of the we thing, I don't remember seeing...|||I'm already paranoid enough, I'm not even sure if I'm paranoid or not... oh dear... I'm a gonna have to get out the medicine again... When he fails his guitarist career, he's all yours. But...|||1.) Unethical - on the odd occasion, I weigh up the entertainment versus ethics a little bit. Throwing rocks at cows... um no, telling an old preaching looney that their religion is a waste of time,...|||Or I could just as easily turn up the uncertainty and feign amnesia, I'm not sure what my name was, it could have been Larry, or Freddy or Matt or Stephan or something... It'd work wonders in a...|||I can only relate to at least half of it, I'm not all that outgoing though, I'm a failed extroverted experiment. I think you'll find that ISTP is the preferred assassin type, ENTPs might be capable,...|||I think some people find it exhilarating to see someone react to something, no matter what it is. And that exhilaration kind of doubles when the reaction appears to be abnormal, it probably becomes...|||*Drools everywhere* I think I know what I want for christmas... to bad I've annoyed 60% of the ENTJs I've come across. Welcome AisleeinDale (that's the best word recall I can muster, I'm...|||Nice, welcome AELee, may you have a merry time at this here forum. Ignore the one above me, I am the new welcome bot, please donate all your gold to me at this instant for coffee, where's my ISTP...|||I love that song!!! I'm going to make that into a theme-song or something, as soon as I get my grubby little paws on it|||I'm not falling for this again, last time I tried to eat a cookie, my pants zip became a little to close and personal... terrible, terrible dealings. Welcome, I hope my post was absurd enough, I...|||I wish I could do that, I'd probably fall flat on my face in the attempt, and then receive the death penalty. If I ever become an assassin, I'll be setting traps and staying well away from them. We...|||Personality Cafe seems to be extensively linked to Youtube somehow. Welcome Castor, and may your followers rejoice in the dance of the sunchild *takes another puff* Waffles!!! :tongue:|||Nope, couldn't guess your type, Toffan sounds like an ESFP kind of name. Are you sure ENTPs are the social type? As far as I've gathered, the consensus is usually that we don't have enough F to seek...|||I thought 9s were lazier than that... live and let live, I guess, assassin sort of fits then. I was wondering about assassins and ISTPs just a while ago. the prerequisites were 1. intelligence, 2....|||oh goodie, I own that market, and I'm feelin a little hungry... I thought about it, and I think my brother may have stolen my pure 7.. perhaps the only real way to hide my 6... is to dispose of...|||hmmm, I don't remember making any kind of arrangement... but you must be right, yes, of course. But there's a bit of a problem, my idiot accomplice bought sour worms instead of gummy worms, and bait...|||Yeah, BYOB and a couple of other songs were alright, I couldn't staunch any of the others, they were just plain weird. I find the album art to be kind of plain... though I haven't really looked at it...|||I find it hilarious, it's almost the only tv I actually watch... Yup, but each type seems to have their own way of processing information, right? I suppose you're right though, quirks... I'll...|||*tips hat* Thank yee, I dislike SOAD, I'd much rather the cleaner, friendlier, SOAP|||Really? That's not right, every type has its only little peeves and tricks, for instance, I've fallen into the habbit of using more commas than I thought humanly possible, I'm no longer aware of...|||I have not idea what's going on, but I'm the real ENTP, so no one listen to all those impostors."]] [['ISFP'
"'Dear ISFJ Mother, I wish you were less of a work-a-holic and would spend more time with me. When I finally take off to college (I've got four years), you're going to miss me. I'm tired of being in...|||I figured that I'm seen as childish because I'm willing to question about the things I don't know while others may keep quiet because they don't wish to be seen as stupid. Thankfully, my mother told...|||Well my fellow SPs, this thread proves that we are all some form of lazy :tongue:. Funny, thought I'd feel more shame than giddiness....|||Tell my parents that. I would, but then I'd be required to get off this couch :laughing: haha.|||Good, I wouldn't want to be in an Fi-coma :laughing:|||Haha the examples are so cute, but I already have a very limited premise of understanding when dealing with the cognitive functions. It's just that I've failed many times before to detect cognitive...|||And Mario most definantly knows best! :tongue:|||@Nevermind_me Both of us are entering high school in a few days but she doesn't go to my school anymore so that's a plus. Still, we still live very close to one another :unsure:. Oh and yes, she is...|||^ Yeah, you are sadly correct. She has depression :sad: and I think she often finds self-worth in the form of those who hang out with her. You know, like she probably (you can never be certain)...|||^ Some very good points! I think my main fear of letting this carry out any longer is the fear that she may just commit the ultimate end: suicide. She is suicidal, and despite all the dramatics,...|||I'm too lazy and self-absorbed. I could imagine my whole life on this couch- and be enjoying it. If it weren't for school coming soon, I'd be on this couch foreverrrrrrrrrrrr....... Yeah... (By...|||Wow, thanks for all these replies :proud:! I can really relate to what all of you have mentioned and will try to mend our relations- hopefully in a way that works for the both of us. And I agree with...|||Anticipating the 2:00 a.m airing of Jerry Springer that will be on in 30 minutes :blushed: I swear...it's my guilt pleasure! The people who go on that show....imph! I love it!|||I know I'd save a lot for my college funds considering my family isn't the wealthiest out there, probably buy a new laptop, some clothes...after that I'd probably give money to that abused animal...|||I have this friend whom I've been friends with for the last two years. Much to many, and especially this friend's expense, I have that introverted tendency to want to be alone after school and...|||I think I'm a ISFP, especially after reading those! Anyway, I often get, W-Wow! I didn't know you had THAT side of you. Usually after I go ballistic toward someone whose been asking for it since...|||Okay, I can totally try that :D 1. Is there anything that may affect the way you answer the questions? For example, a stressful time, mental illness, medications, special life circumstances?...|||Oops! Sorry for the double post :D|||My profile pic: 4649146492Sorry the one picture is so large, hehe.|||I've never really considered that, but I am still very much sure I am an introvert due to my preference to spend time alone rather than in the company of my friends. My brother is an ESTP like you,...|||Thanks RevaN, I appreciate you taking the time to help me :D. Haha, I will definantly go and research the ESFP description although, isn't it possible for my cognitive functions could be reversed? My...|||Despite being hugely interested in the MBTI for about a year now; taking every test imaginable online, and going through secure and insecure moodswings on my type, I can't seem to settle. Things fit...|||I'm an ENFP and I have the strange inabilty to color nicely. :D|||OooH! I'll give this a go! Spy:ISTP Villain:INTJ Rock Star: ESFP Knight: ISTJ Princess:INFP Bodyguard:ISTP Heir to a Large Company: er...hard INTP Martyr:INFP Soldier: ISTJ|||I am so late with replying to this thread but I couldn't help it, this topic just seems so interesting! Okay, here I go! Your type:ENFP ISFJ: My best friend for years is this type. He is...|||You know you are an ENFP when years before (and even now) you acted out Red Riding Hood by playing Red Riding Hood, the Wolf, and Granny just to eat the blue berries you had gotten from the fridge....|||Don't worry. I have an ESTP brother too and he can be pretty dramatic if something bad happens in his life. But then he usually gets over it in a few days and says something like, This place is...|||Hi, I'm an ENFP living in a household full of S's and T's (except for dear ol' mom) and find it very hard to deal with my two action-oriented brothers, a ESTP and a ISTP. To begin, I must say that...|||So strange...you sound a lot like me. Maybe it's just an INFP thing :proud:|||Please don't be scared! Now, to be honest, if you wish, you can discredit my advice being as I am only fourteen but all of what you said sounds like Cyclothymia or Bipolar Disorder (I'm REALLY...|||I have a few confessions: Even on the internet, where I know no one knows who I am, I am reluctant (and virtually never) mean. Also, I intetionally avoid my friends because the time I need to...|||Yeah, haha, I know. It's just that while the ENFP description fits me very well, I just am not really a people person and I'm not extroverted which makes me wonder.|||I've been interested in the MBTI for about a year, but within that year, I've been bouncing around between ENFP, ISFP and INFP. All of these types seem to fit me in many ways but I can't seem to...|||I know I'm totally late with replying and all but I couldn't help it! Because of your totally accurate description of me, I think I've finally found my type! Everything describes me to a T! Thank you!|||With someone you have a love/hate relationship with? And you really just can't leave because there was a snow storm outside? What if they were a childhood friend that hated you for some reason? Would...|||I'd like to know the MBTi's for each of the following countries. If you want, feel totally free to add your own countries so they can be evaluated too. Give reasonings if you will :proud: if you do,...|||Awh! The music ended AS SOON as i finished reading. Your experience was sad, eye-opening and went perfectly with the music. I'm sorry to hear this happened to you. I'm only 14 and an ENFP (:kitteh:...|||I wanna catch em' all! Gotta catch em' all. (Pokemon of course.) but sadly, I live in a world where the only thing you can catch is sickness. *goes to sad corner*|||This actually happened to me and an ENTP. Though I threw a ball at him first (Using my innocence and general facade of oblivious-ness to adorn the title of not a threat during the game) to casually...|||Ah! I'm glad this thread it progressing! Thank you all who have answered so far! Still a few we need and I hope we can fill those spots.|||Say you have spoken very little, but were very drawn to them for something you've seen them do. Would you immediately be flirty? Steal secret glances? Stare them down? :proud: I'm really curious. ...|||My mother is an ESTJ (though I am a little hesitant) and I am an ENFP. I've learned that as long as I don't second guess my mother, and argue, I'm set. My mother feels threatened when she, as a...|||This isn't meant to offend, in fact I highly value your knowledge, but the fact that the mast majority of NT's are very intellectual intimidates me. I'm an ENFP and I find myself strangely afraid of...|||I don't know if anyone's said this but I often get, Um...are you high? I love that since I've never taken a drug in my life time.'"]
['INFJ'
"'To me, I think you guys may be over analyzing it a bit. I know I do this often with friends, whether I mean to or not. I even usually realize that I do it and can't help myself. So since this sounds...|||I definitely do not think it is just an ENTP thing. I am INFJ and have refused to jump through hoops for anyone for most of my life. I was raised to follow all of these stupid little rules of social...|||For one of the millions of applications I have submitted to get recognized and to get hired. And hot chocolate in front of a giant bonfire.|||Hmm, I have never heard of that, but it does make sense. Thanks for posting.|||I tend to go through these periods too. It seems like I keep going back and forth between two phases, wanting to be close to people and feeling extremely lonely and the other phase is where I tend to...|||I have to completely agree with her also. She hit it dead on the nose. INFxs tend to have strong emotions, but we do not display them as much as you would think. Just because you feel like she isn't...|||I regularly have lucid dreams. Typically I will have discussions with friends, family, coworkers, etc. in my dreams and they are so realistic, that I can't remember if I actually had that...|||I like to make up strange stories about everyday things too. Whether it be about random people in the mall or animals I see. When my boyfriend (INTP) asks me what I am thinking about I will spin this...|||I completely understand what you mean. I get the same vibe. I remember one time driving on the highway and suddenly it felt like I hit this intense wall of sadness and suddenly started bawling as I...|||All my life I have been able to feel most people's energy and emotion. Some people exude their energy and emotions stronger than others and the more logical types, Ts rather than Fs, seem to have...|||I think the most horrifying thing about being an INFJ is going back and forth between phases where I would like to be closely connected with friends and pushing people away. Sometimes I feel so...|||I completely understand what you mean. When I hear uplifting songs, songs of joy, love songs, etc. I feel an intense high that is simply amazing. Oddly enough for me, when I am in a completely...|||I have done the singing lessons and all and really miss it. Now that I am attending college full time and have a job, I have little time and money to dedicate to singing and the lessons. I have tried...|||LOL, that is hilarious! They don't creep me out at all, in fact I tend to enjoy their company than other type. They probably weren't used to situations like that in a small town. I thought the whole...|||This seems to be a typical trait seen with people with repressive parents and most INFJs I have talked to. My bf began to tackle this problem I had with simply allowing me to make all decisions. I...|||Lol, no just things that I will most likely do anyways, like paying for insurance, loan, credit card, etc. Things I will most likely be doing anyways but list just in case. Definitely not anything...|||Sometimes I make to-do lists just so I can feel productive :laughing:. I will list stupid little things that I know I will have to get done throughout the day and as I go, I cross them off so I know...|||I also obsess about music. My playlist consists of: 1. I and Love and You by The Avett Brothers 2. If I Die Young by The Band Perry 3. Love Shack by B-52's 4. Your Song by Elton John 5. Never...|||And you thought yours was a long post :tongue:.|||Seeing as I am an INFJ who is dating an INTP who had to go through almost all the same stuff it sounds like you are going though, I will try and help you to understand some of this. I have...|||I would have to say that I have issues with self esteem also. I seem to never be perfect enough. It is either something wrong with my body, my personality, etc. I can never reach a perfect shape,...|||I find grieving one of the hardest things for me to do. I usually try to hold it all in until it is acceptable to let it out (most of the time I have to be strong for others and will not allow myself...|||I feel free when I am allowed to be me and not have to put on a mask for anyone and act a certain way in order to fit into the situation as I tend to do, and when I am excepted by others when being...|||I am very obsessive. I am currently watching The Princess Bride, the same movie I fell in love with when I was about 8 and had my mom rent from Blockbuster repeatedly. 13 Years later, I am still...|||You know you are an INFJ when you distance yourself for others, yet ache from loneliness; you help others even though you know there will be negative consequences; and people say that you care too...|||LOL I totally meant my bf's cat and 2 great danes. I now see how that could have been taken like that though. It is funny though because my bf's cat pretty much rules over the 2 huge dogs. He thinks...|||-Reading -People Watching -Kayaking -White Water Rafting -Tubing -History research (books, History channel, etc.) -Deep thoughtful conversations -Hanging with the bf and his family -My cat,...|||It is no fun following the norm, don't bother worrying about if you are abnormal or not. I prefer to be abnormal :tongue:.|||Another September.|||Lol, no worries. Sometimes I have the personality of an INTJ, but have not crossed the line to it solely because of the fact that I understand people and emotions and can't get over the empathy I...|||I have been dating my INTP boyfriend for three years so far and have loved every moment. In fact, it was his awkwardness, intellect, quick wit, and such that attracted me to him. I love INTP men. I...|||Hmm, I have yet to test my own parents yet, but I will definitely have to now just to find out how it would turn out. I would have to say that my mom would be an ENFP and my father would have to be...|||I can't believe I am about to say all this, but I think it needs to be let out. What better place than this? So here it goes: 1.I am controlling over my boyfriend and get extremely jealous all...|||Definitely a night owl. I love to sleep, don't get me wrong. But yet, I find that I just can't sleep, and don't really want to sleep, until late in the night. Lately the norm is about 3-6 hours a...|||I have always pondered about this question. Was my personality more the result of my own life experiences? My upbringing? My parents' personalities? My birth order? Genetics? Which one was the main...|||I am a red head and have been all of my life. Because of this, I have had to face people who hated me and wanted to fight me for really no reason other than the fact that I was different. Because of...|||I am a red head and have been all of my life. Because of this, I have had to face people who hated me and wanted to fight me for really no reason other than the fact that I was different. Because of...|||Well I would have to say some of the weirdest things about me are that even though I have red hair, I have very light brown eyebrows; I have a scar on my lip to the left of my cupid's bow thanks to...|||You are extremely lucky to have close friends who understand you so well.|||I am curious how that is working out for you. I have this same type of attitude, but yet the usual is that not one person seems to stick around to show that they want to be close to me in any way...|||I feel the same way. If the person has a much different personality than me or has a different outlook on life than me, thus having something to learn, then usually I will have a great friendship...|||I have also had this problem. I have different roles that I play for different people depending on the situation. It is also frustrating to me to try and sift through it all to find out who I...|||My bf is an INTP. We have been dating for about 3 years and it is amazing. It can be difficult at times because we are so different, but our differences are really a reason why our relationship is so...|||The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy by Douglas Adams This book will make you look completely different about the world and is written completely different than you have ever seen or will ever...|||YES! I always find myself in that same war. I am so glad that it wasn't just me feeling this way! I have few friends, but those are still the ones that mostly I am contacting. The people that I would...|||I am currently in college for Elementary Ed so I have to consider all of these things currently, how I would like my classroom. For a college setting, I would say loosely structured, with a lesson...|||I am the one that everyone goes to if they have a question about anything; need a ride somewhere; are angry, upset, etc.; and if there is an argument. I am the moderator, nurturer, best friend, and...|||I would say that your mindset is not bad at all, in fact quite healthy. I think that there should be no reason to rush into anything with a man unless you really want to. It is better to wait for a...|||I am very picky when it comes to close friendships. I have many people who are casual friends who I hang out with occasionally, but there are few close friends. In friendships, I either don't click...|||21 yr old Female It all depends on the guy I am with. With my ex, I was distant, shy, quite, and really quite uninvolved in the relationship because to tell the truth, I was testing the dating...'"]
['ENFP'
"'NIHM While NIHM has her INTJ husband, I've got my INTJ girlfriend. Dating/girlfriend, I don't even know what to call it these days. I loved the way Tridentus put the INFP/INFJ/INTJ bonding...|||For sure. I appreciate the response. She came back today. It's been 6 weeks and we're meeting at a park to go hike. Excited. Everything worked out as far as the long distance. The whole...|||Coffee shops, parks, libraries, outside, inside, lost in the woods. The better question would be how do you spot an ENFP? You INTJs draw me in very quickly. The stoic, lack of expression on your...|||Always loved and excelled at FPS's, but had a difficult time with Turok.|||I'm not sure what that means.|||Great advice. The one thing you said really stood out to me Keep reminding yourself that space for your INTJ means they will be happier, instead of taking it personal. I'm learning that. I feel...|||Haha, I can see how it could look like cat fishing. But speaking of reboot - she did mention at times she can get stuck and she almost becomes totally detached from reality. Like she is just going...|||She ended up calling me yesterday night. And you're right, and I know this - you guys don't like small talk. I can feel that. It will take time to get used to the lack of communication. After such...|||Was in the classroom today and about lost it. Was on the 15th hour and the mental fog and shear emotional fatigue started to affect every aspect of my being. I pushed through though and made it. The...|||I appreciate the responses. I got good information. She got in touch this morning. Onward and into the unknown we go.|||Here's to another ENFP/INTJ thread. I'm coming here because I really don't have anywhere else to turn who may understand at the level in which I hope to relay. Of course this is a relationship...|||How much weight have you lost? I've been doing 16/8 intermittent fasting for several days now. For me, it was less about weight loss and more about will-power. I don't want to be controlled by my...|||Of course that's solid. Are you asking because you are unsure or just updating on the awesomeness? If you are unsure - you'll be reminded everything's ok in due time - I go through that with my INTJ....|||Haven't seen you in a minute. Good to see you back.|||Keep writing stuff. That was quality right there.|||I should be going to bed. Going to type this in one go and fast, but with heart. I've been dating/bf/gf INTJ for a few months now. I saw her get off the bus to volunteer. I was like, who the hell is...|||For me, it would to be direct. You can be direct and want to hang out again. Like I had a really good time the other night, we should get together again. Or non-direct I had a really good time...|||Like others have said, all of this is pure speculation. Who the hell knows. It could be anything. But making out with someone and feeling those feelings would leave me to believe that a second sort...|||Shot at me or am I sensitive?|||I'm sure a lot of people who feel awkward inside don't show it on their face. You wouldn't know it. High school with the hormones, acne, and caring so much about image - glad I'm older.|||atamagasuita Weren't you ENFP not long ago? Or am I trippin|||ENFP to INTJs: -The ability to not talk when around one another and feel totally at ease - same wavelengths -I want to follow your lead -I want to open that heart of yours -You ground us -To...|||Wait until she gets back to you? It doesn't sound like ghosting as she hasn't been on social media. If she's not feeling it, there's not more you can do, but if she is, she'll get back to you....|||I don't seek people-power. Or that's not how I view it. I guess I lead with my values and others either accept it or don't. Although, I feel like I'm convincing in my efforts as I believe I have a...|||Where does my understanding of what is moral or truthful come from? That's a great question. Functionally speaking, it comes from Fi. Since I was a child, protecting and being aware of the feelings...|||To be honest, your description of how you incorporate your Fe sounds a lot how I use my Fi. I will speak up when I feel someone is leading another down the wrong path. Usually this revolves around...|||I've been seeing an INTJ for little over a month and we just made things official last weekend. When I saw her for the first time, I was literally a moth to a flame. I saw her from afar and was in...|||Those who have Aspergers have been some of the most honest and genuine people I've met. They told things how they were and how they saw them. No sugar coating or beating around the bush. To me, this...|||I've always taken the good route when it comes to video games or characters in general - the knight in shining armor or what have you. I've never understood the people who go the bad route as I...|||I find this true of me too. I choose the person I want to be friends with and just make it happen. Something about their character entices me and lures me in. I'm friends with everyone, but it takes...|||I know exactly what you mean. But you said it yourself, trust that intuition. It's gotten you this far and it won't stray you down the wrong path either. Intuition and the heart are our greatest...|||Welcome dude. I also like the Sam Harris podcast. I love how he starts out each podcast with Welcome to the Waking up Podcast, this is Sam Harris...Ok - lovable robot.|||Remember to tread lightly on the stereotypes of personality types. If my heart is in it, I'm in it. And my only experience of this has been the recent girl I've met. We've been seeing each other for...|||Anger and desire? I like words like compassion for oneself, acceptance, and observing and letting go of resistance. Advising anger and desire to someones seems like the wrong path to go down.|||I'm with angelcat. I've never door-slammed someone. There's too many chances to make things right again and I let that space stay there. I don't like hurting people either. I've also never been...|||Loved this.|||Haha. Yeah, I like Te. He gets me places and makes things happen. Your Te might make you emo, but black eyeliner is cool. Slap that Te around!|||Coagulated Magic Just now seeing this. Interesting that you've come to terms with Si as this can be our most dangerous trait to fall into. I'm not entirely sure or understand exactly what it means...|||Welcome dude! Hope your time here is awesome.|||Hmm. Like others have said, I don't really get embarrassed. I'm a sociable free spirit in the sense that I will talk about anything to anyone. The dude at auto zone had long hair and I asked how long...|||Today I did something I haven't done in a long time. I did nothing. I came home from work, took a nap from exhaustion, made dinner, came back into my room, and found myself just kind of sitting here....|||It looks like us ENFPs are split on the exciting part. Personally, I get the party rolling. When me and the coworkers are eating lunch, I'm usually the one that gets everyone laughing. Usually by...|||I agree with Ultra Violet. There's a level of grounding that I found truly unique and special. There was an INFJ girl who I worked with who I'd see on occasion. The first time I met her, I felt so...|||I think what you describe is called 'FOMO' - Fear Of Missing Out. A lot of ENFPs I've come across share this trait. I'm less FOMO, but I definitely go into new ideas with high amounts of enthusiasm...|||Yes. As I've gotten older, I've gone from having crushes on girls who I thought were pretty and not doing much about it, to having interests in girls with whom our personalities have a peanut butter...|||I think ENFPs are natural comedians. Less jokes, but just a natural funny charm. No twitter handle though :frustrating:|||Your writing style is very emotionally connective. A kind of listening, non-judgmental, and warm connection. I bet if you asked the people in your life how they felt about your connection with them,...|||Hard work. Give it your 100%. Failure is not an option. 1st, 2nd, 3rd place. Work hard, play hard. If you're not first, you're last (lol). Putting in the right amount of effort into what you're...|||ENFP dude here. Screw em'. Your ex's 'too nice' suggestion was like a child in the kitty pool (filled with pee). Keep spreading that love. The right one will come. As far as the rubber band...|||I'm in the untamed and wild ENFP look. Hardly ever use gel. I like running my hands through it front to back.'"]
...
['ISTP'
"Ok I don't really get new clothes much because bluh, but last week I got a cool pair of leggings. I wore them for the first time today (well, now it's technically yesterday), and I already tore a...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h-0HRs0FY2U|||this song is dangerously catchy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O-zpOMYRi0w|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QnbvOi4SpSk|||Subscribing to threads instead of replying to them because I'm a lazy bum and don't feel like typing my wall of text right now.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ROk_XmYV_WI|||It's pretty unusual for me to have nightmares. The manner of my dreams are typically random, yet have a structured storyline, so the complexity likely trumps any form of nightmare so I don't...|||Watching Shark Week and eating ice cream. d:|||Thanks. I'll enjoy my stay. d: I staked out here before to avoid drama on said site, but I feel bad that my activity here tapered for the most part after that. Hopefully when I return to that...|||It tires me, it makes me sad To think of all the nights I've had Eyes shut tightly, I shut down Won't be that much longer now In the quiet, in the dark All my ideals fall apart When they come...|||I somehow got involved in a huge argument on my home forum, and I ended up leaving temporarily to calm myself down. I'm just worried that given the consequences of the argument, that there will be a...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ttf8dsd3B3U|||Ah, my bad. Missed the second page. Now I feel pretty silly, haha. Thanks, though! =)|||All of a sudden, I started getting a little paranoid about playing my music through my computer's speakers because I'm afraid it might be upsetting my houseplants. So, whenever the songs gets...|||I'm having this same problem. I thought maybe it was because I was pretty inactive for awhile, but I suppose not if you guys are having it too. From the looks of it, usergroup permissions got...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OKT0AqmVGSE|||The Fallen by Charlie Higson.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n0l0YOHO5jg|||I just adore these guys. <3 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aD_cWEIy4Gg|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pCU-5MM2v9c|||I haven't gotten any warnings from my antivirus software, but I've seen this happen to another site once, and the loading times were really bad. I'm not super familiar with PerC, since I'm kind of...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vu6N5ktSUhM|||I'm actually an ISTP. But, I don't fit its archetype to a T, so I'm totally alright with your presented results. =P Nice survey, by the way.|||8/10 I like the meter.|||Group One I tend to be sociable, but sometimes have a hidden agenda. I can get quite angry, and like to take charge of a situation. I can be seen as manipulative and brash. I tend to be very...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=22wU-UITRIA|||I'm trying to think... my first two detentions were issued fairly close together in fourth grade. The first one was for working on a science/health project during reading class. The second one was...|||I think you can. You should never let your personality type dictate whether or not you're allowed to express certain interests of yours. It's just that... I think it's really ridiculous to say that...|||I think it's just a part of human nature to categorize things. We've always done it, and we probably always will. I suppose some people do it more than others, but then you can categorize people by...|||Personal ~ * Name - What do you preferred to be called? Mayran - Any nicknames? No, but you're free to give me one if you wish. * Male/Female/Trans? Female Location - Where were you..."]
['INFP'
"'*breathes in* *breathes out* ...That's nice.|||Okay, PLEASE disregard my above post. I was having a weird day, completely remembered that play wrong (a bench? only a rock and a tree), and now I'm ashamed because I'm doing a project on him and I...|||My life is like Waiting For Godot... except in my version I'm the only one waiting by the bench, and Godot promised she'd kiss me.|||Ah! It seems I'm late to the party. Screwy pokéball.. you might want to replace this one. Welcome! It seems to me like you're an INFP, so you shouldn't worry so much about the intricacies until...|||The problem with the way this was set up is that it creates the comparison to lucid dreams. Dreams are natural and healthy with the process of sleeping, and so less people would feel inclined to...|||INTJs are super duper intriguing. I kind of fawn over the ones I know locally, they are continually perplexed by my fascination, and I am even more won over by that. Thus, a beautiful cycle was born....|||Mother- xSxJ Father- ENTx Little brother- ESTP for sure. He's a math whiz (known trigonometry since the third grade), but would rather goof off with his comparatively idiotic friends and be a huge...|||I definitely believe that libraries aren't going away. The one near my home is adapting at a fast rate to technology and incorporating it into the framework of what they do. For example, more...|||...wow. You always have the best answers. You're really going to get somewhere in life. I blushed to high heavens. (By the way, the question she asked was what change I want most in the world....|||When I was five to about ten-ish, I was flexible enough to scratch my head with my foot like a dog. I was so proud of this ability I would get the attention of random strangers in airports, and show...|||You should find out for yourself. It's a little more difficult in winter, but that's okay. I'm going to assume you have experience rain dancing in the other seasons, or else this will be impossible...|||What I do when I'm really stressed/upset is I imagine one of my friends holding me and stroking my hair. It's hard for me to stay in the present moment, but snuggling is the exception. Often they'll...|||ESFP, maybe you should take a shower. I know it's a common look for you, but crusted vomit from last night's partying is not attractive. Although, you manage to sleep with everybody anyway.|||Dubstep? Cool enough stuff. Pokéstep? Orgasmic. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lDw5NJrgufg&feature=autoplay&list=SP377A9068DF0DA87E&lf=list_related&playnext=2|||Hm. You might not like what I have to say. I've done something along the same strain when I went out with the last guy I dated (I refuse to call him my ex, as it was never really a relationship)....|||The INFP subforum is a lovely, lovely place to be. I'm sure you'll make many friends and feel very welcome. For myself, as I don't have a lot of friends, this place makes me feel less lonely. :) ...|||Even gifted students who have been making a few Bs lately deserve love. (Unpopular with my parents, my teachers, and every college admissions board ever.)|||Speaking... doesn't quite make sense to me. I can write just fine, but I tend to talk pretty fast and without good diction because once people are listening to me, I can't make sense of what I'm...|||And you think they would be, right? Just hours ago, this calm-looking cat strolled up to me and meowed twice. I meowed back, and he slapped me in the face. Apathetic my ass.|||Nonono. Low meows are hilarious AND adorable.|||A few of my friends have picked it up. My best friend (a guy) meows almost as much as I do, and he is absolutely adored by everyone. He's also an extrovert, so it seems there are advantages to it for...|||Chances are you clicked on this thread after a confused pause when you read the title. Hear me out, okay? I have always been extremely introverted. The friends I make are near and dear to my...|||Trust issues, idealizing people I like far too much, the fact that I cannot initiate anything because that could mean rejection (especially with the girl crushes, here in the bible belt), and the...|||Dear INFJ, You're so sweet and so perfect --at least until you open a big can of judgmental all over everyone, and then I want to strangle you and feed you to the tigers. You always deceive me so,...|||Nearby parks or artsy coffee shops always work well for a first date. After a few dates, then I like being in either my home or the other person's, so we can start understanding each other's way of...|||I relate almost uncannily to slytherin360 's post. Most of what I have to say would be repeating the sentiments she already brought forth, but I shall try to add something to this thread. I...|||Starcraft 2- Though I'm personally terrible at it, it is extremely fascinating to me. Pokémon- It's perfect. 'Nuff said. Kirby- The perfect road trip game. It's cute, fun, and (normally) easy....|||Okay. The fact is that the origins of schooling don't matter. What is relevant is that school teaches us things to be used. It is in essence nurturing our brains while they develop. School teaches...|||Hm.... Disagreed. Anything other than learning in schools is secondary, or is fed to the kids that don't take school seriously anyway. It just requires seeing through the bullshit (aka PEP...|||I'm an INFP too. I hope you enjoy yourself here! Also, yes. Your title. Creativity by irony is gold here. You'll be liked.|||I would definitely agree, at least in accordance to my situation. I met a really great ENFJ friend a few years ago, and he brought out the best in me. We dated, and it got better, and then we broke...|||Good response, and I agree. I just like playing devil's advocate.|||...Wow. That almost made me nauseated. I would much rather someone say your to me than that space... thing. Spaces separate words... [/crazyness] -ahem- Sorry. I understand the reasoning behind...|||I really really REALLY appreciate this post. This sheds some possible light on why he does what he does, and that's what I was hoping for. Further insights will probably come over mulling over this...|||That's how one would think it would work. But grammar can be confusing. Initialisms don't work as regular words do. It's more like (according to all the information I've found): INTJ -> one of them...|||If you're going to say that, I need proof it's that way. Every source I can find on the issue says otherwise. I would much rather just say INTJs though, regardless of what's right.|||This is why INTJ's are orgasmic. It seems like I'm a minority in INFP's that believe this. Um um right this is a question thread ummmm Well, does it bug you to have to put an apostrophe in...|||A number of reasons: One, because we'd broken up half a year before this incident because he'd tried marijuana and I was afraid he'd end up loving it more than me, because I'm more insecure than a...|||Soooooo. Hey all, thanks for taking the time to help me here. I used to date this wonderful, lovely ENFJ. He fit the ENFJ description to a T (ironic saying is ironic), and that's not just me being...|||Ahaha, I am 17. So pretty much the same stuff I'm doing now: reading poetry, playing pretty piano pieces, reading popular science books and picking them apart for fun if they're bad, skipping down...|||But what if letting people know about it ended up landing you in the circus, or in a research lab where people will basically take you apart to investigate?|||I often feel like I need an outlet for my Ne, and maybe you do too. So either dump some thoughtful scenarios here, go through and respond to them, or some combination of the two. If we don't...|||1.) I prefer it being soft and slow and then passionate and a bit faster. If it's too fast first, you haven't lured in my emotions correctly. I'm sure it staying slow may be nice in some cases, but...|||rednet2: A wild INTJ appeared! Isn't that perfect love, in a way? What makes a virtual reality any less real than reality?|||Hm. You think so? Then again, I can only speak for myself, and my side of the story. Don't you ever get upset with incompetence, though? When people mangle up words, blather incoherent...|||So INTJs are the best. (Yay for stereotyping.) How can a chronic perceiver like me, or just xNFPs in general, best come across as anything but incompetent, illogical, and disorganized to you guys? My...|||I assume you all, being INFPs, think about love as much as I do, and what it should ideally be. So, do you have anything to compare everything romantic to? Anything to which you go, Ah, now THAT's...|||Take this advice with the knowledge that I am only a teenager, and a pretty sheltered one, at that. My advice may not be right, or realistic, or appropriate, but I really felt like trying. I hope you...|||I have a really big problem with this. Really really big. My last relationship was my first intimate relationship, and it was when I found out I have serious issues with sexuality. As an idea? Not...|||This. I forgot to say that too. (Although the analogies are gone now..) The SAT requires you to study the test, whereas the ACT just needs you to study the material. Does that makes sense? Also,...'"]
['INFJ'
"'@TragicallyHip , I got over it by relying on the method @VividMelody and the rest recommended- focusing on his bad points. I realised he's very bossy, domineering and controlling. He often walks...|||Serrintine Isn't this a narrow way of seeing things? Your objection to horoscopes is due to the way it is determined (i.e. time of birth) and supernatural nature. It is not based on...|||I look like a girly girl. I like wearing feminine dresses and pretty jewelry. I am soft spoken and demure. But my mind is that of a man. Frivolous talk bore me and petty gossip irritates me. I love...|||I'm glad you are open to a discussion @Serrintine , even though we don't share the same point of view. Just curious, isn't MBTI also theorizations of people that fit them into boxes? If you...|||I've met a few obsessed guys before. I'd like to think it's because I'm supremely beautiful and incredibly irresistable. But this would be a great joke, because I don't think I'm much to look at....|||I was ugly all the way till age 17. I had home cut hair and huge glasses. I was so thin that I was all hard angles and lines. It didn't help that I was a loner who found reading books more...|||Thanks for sharing Waltfeld. My turn. I've highlighted in bold what I feel is a very accurate about me, and INFJs in general:|||Serrintine, I'm always happy to engage in a discussion and see different points of view :) For me, I've read a whole lot of horoscope descriptions, both Western and Chinese ones. As you said,...|||For me, horoscopes offer me another perspective of looking at myself. Like everyone else, I prefer to see myself in the way I want to. But coming from another perspective, I learn new things about...|||I hope your relationship with him is not as challenging as my relationship with my father. We totally don't get each other. It's very hard for him to value me just as it is very hard for me to value...|||Well, I'm a Leo. And all Leos are supposed to be extroverted and flamboyant. But I'm not. I'm an introverted INFJ :) But when I read my Chinese horoscope, the picture becomes clearer. I'm born in...|||Hmmm... so I'm the only one here with a larger upper lip? Face reading originated from traditional Chinese medicine. Reading the face was one of the ways phyisicians predicted the onset of...|||Assuming all INFJs value authenticity, is your upper lip larger than your lower lip? If face reading is true, then: For these people (with bigger upper lip) it is important to be authentic....|||Yes, Ix92ve found this to be effective in the past as well. Too bad, itx92s usually quite hard for me to be attracted to someone. And I always pick the weirdest ones, hahax85 Not the conventionally young...|||That's a very good idea. I might just do this :) LOL, I like this idea! But if it backfires and he really does it, I am screwed! :laughing: Good suggestions but they might not...|||I don't know the state of Mr Silverfox's marriage and I don't want to know. But it doesn't mean that when a man cheats, he's in an unhappy marriage. Some men just do it because they have the...|||[FONT=Tahoma] @traceur , I feel like Ix92m repeating passages from Jane Eyre, who incidentally is an INFJ. Ix92m not sure whether youx92ve read the book. But the titular character Jane is small, poor...|||[FONT=Calibri]Thank you @IcarusDreams for coming to my defence. Ix92ve always had a soft spot for you INFPs *big hug* :) Itx92s true, we all have an intrinsic worth no matter whether other people...|||@ohTOMICho , @Bumblyjack , I donx92t know if I would go as far as saying he wants to have an affair with me, because hex92s not done anything but look so far. In my books, when Ix92m in a relationship with...|||Bingo Btmangan. It's for insights like this that I come to this forum and INFJs often hit bulleye's with their perceptiveness. I don't lack for male attention. If I want it, it's not that difficult...|||Yes, I keep reminding myself that this crush is partly the result of the bad patch I'm undergoing right now. Actually, I do have the attention of a good looking younger guy. He's the company...|||@Lady Nurture, Ix92m sorry to hear about your bad experience. I know that if I start something with this married guy, I will go down the same path. I have no illusions about it. Sometimes, I donx92t...|||Very good sound advice. I'm jogging regularly and probably need to do more of it. I am also trying to give myself something to look forward to. Unfortunately, the only thing I can find is... junk...|||Bumblyjack, you're right, I need to redirect my emotions rather than suppress them. Too bad this guy has been faultless in his behaviour to me up till now :( unico, I've tried focusing on his...|||[FONT=Arial][SIZE=2]Actually, Ix92m beginning to wonder if Ix92ve read too much into him looking at me. Maybe hex92s looking at me not because he likes me but because: (1) The company is 90% men. There...|||Unfortunately, my financial circumstances now are so bad that I cannot afford to go out often to socialise. So I'm not meeting anyone new. The other guys in the office flirt with me too. But...|||Thank you for the post, SilverMoon. We can't help our feelings but we don't have to act on them. I'm just afraid my self control isn't strong enough. Sigh. Especially when I'm feeling so down in...|||I know dude, I know *groan* But I see him 5 out of 7 days every week. I'm going through a bad patch now, in both my career and personal life, and have nothing else to look forward to. His...|||Ok I posted this in the relationship forum and thought I'd post it here as well to get the INFJ perspective. INFJs are highly intense people who develop strong feelings for people they are...|||Aww... I don't understand why she doesn't realise she deserves better in this case :(|||That sounds like the situation my friend was in too. He was not violent with her but verbally abusive and highly controlling. He'd call her names like stupid. Stop her from seeing all her friends....|||What a great piece of advice, Vivid Melody. With this, I think I have found the answer to move on. Having been through the same experience, I can only say you've been a paragon of patience and...|||@Zech , I don’t know whether I want to forgive him. I’m trying to see an alternative to how things could be different. Chinese New Year has just past and I got another one of those messages from my...|||@Vivid Melody My father is one of those people who are too far gone that it’s impossible to talk to them. In my interactions with him so far, he has never tried to see things from a perspective other...|||Thank you all who have shared your painful stories on this thread. I feel you, I’ve been there. Unico, Vivid Melody, my issue is also with a parent. Specifically, my father. I’ve cut off ties...|||INFJs are known for their INFJ doorslams. When was the last time you forgave someone who hurt you deeply? Can you share your experiences? I am trying to find the strength to forgive someone...|||Nah, I just find it really boring to talk circles around obscure theories. I'm much more interested in people, the relationships they form with one another, the pyschological insights from certain...|||When I was a teenager, I tested as an INTJ in a scholarship programme. In my 30s, my results became INFJ. I don't know how that happened. But when I popped into the INTJ forum just now and read...|||Or admits he's wrong in any way? But pushes the blame back to you? No matter how upset the person has made you, or how badly he's treated you, this person just refuses to acknowledge his...|||Psychology is not so much about classifying people but trying to probe into and understand people more deeply using a set of investigative tools. But I'm with you on not giving myself any excuses for...|||Jawz, NFs are easily hurt creatures. A lot of us find it unbearable to be disliked by others. Perhaps some of the INFJs here think you don't like them. Personally, I welcome your insights. I'm more...|||True, learning is a choice. But also, attitude towards life/others is something many people develop when they're very young and seldom change afterwards. Pyschologists often say that people's...|||I don't know whether EQ can be learnt. This is because I have failed enough times in teaching people how to consider others before they say/do something. Maybe EQ is a skill people can pick up, but...|||You know you're an INFJ when the intentions of others are very important. Better by far that someone has done the wrong thing with good intentions than to do the right thing with bad intentions. In...|||Yes, this is so ME too, haha... Very good explanation of how INFJs work. I'm often amazed how people allow themselves to be abused time and again. Don't you already know their pattern?...|||I know how you feel. I don't show it but I can be easily hurt by what people say. I always wonder how people can be so insensitive. Do they actually think through what they say before they say it? Do...|||Your observation is spot on. One of my INFJ friends is like this. She suspected me of wanting to make use of her but didn't come out to say it. She continued to hold this opinion and eventually did...|||For me, it's ok to say something stupid or tactless. Everyone slips up once in a while and what you say don't always come out the way you want to. I can cut some slack for this. What I can't cut...|||Something about asking others to praise your own personality type makes me want to gag. Humble much?|||Recently, one of my NT friends hurt me quite badly with something tactless he said. He said I was never going to be successful in the corporate world and I should join him in starting up a business...'"]] 2122 ISTP
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